Individuals do not function in a vacuum. They continuously influence one another through feedback and interaction with one another. Often, behaviors that appear to make little sense emerge as far more understandable when the surrounding conditions (or context) are better understood. Individuals, married couples, and family members must grasp and communicate an understanding of respective viewpoints. These viewpoints may vary considerably. Individuals need to look for potential circular pathways of causality that may maintain or perpetuate problems. For example, the thoughts and feelings of one person promote those of another, which in turn promote the thoughts and feelings of the first person. Suddenly a verbal exchange can escalate into something that neither party can handle.

“"Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is gracious, if there is any excellence and if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things."Philippians 4:8. St. Paul's letter to the Christians at Philippi was written while he was in prison and in danger of death. Much of this letter is devoted to instruction about unity and humility and exhortations to growth, joy, and peace in their life together.